ABOUT
MSL NETWORK
Community, Advocacy
& Understanding
For all people affected by murder-suicide loss events
We are the first and only non-profit, postvention community for survivors of murder-suicide loss (MSL) events. Our mission is to provide a supportive place for MSL survivors to grieve, cope, and heal.
We offer peer-led virtual support groups to our members along with a member's space for survivors to connect on this site.
If you are a survivor who has lost one or more people to murder-suicide, we are sorry you had to look for us. But we're glad you found us.
Community
You are not alone. After a murder-suicide loss, you may feel devastated, isolated, and stigmatized.
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We founded this group to provide hope and community for those experiencing life after this rare type of loss, which, unfortunately, is an everyday occurrence in the United States.
The loss of multiple people after this type of suicide loss is incredibly complex to navigate. This stands true if you feel more connected to the victim, perpetrator, or both. If you identify as a survivor of this type of loss, or have faced this loss and aren’t sure how you identify now, we provide a supportive circle to explore healing within.
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We welcome all survivors of murder-suicide loss, regardless of their relationship to those who died. We emphasize welcoming all kinds of survivors of this type of loss as we understand, for many people, you cannot “choose sides.” Our objective is to leave participants with a tool, skill, connection, or new perspective to help them move toward their healing goals.
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Survivors include, but are not limited to, the following circumstances:
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Attempted murder-suicide survivors
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Child and step-child loss
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In-law loss
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Friend loss
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Parental and/or step-parental loss
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Sibling and/or step-sibling loss
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Spouse, ex-spouse, partner or ex-partner loss
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Witnesses of murder-suicide with or without direct connections to the victim and/or perpetrator
Advocacy
We work to raise awareness of the unique difficulties of MSL to help build more resources for survivors.
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2025 Events
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January 1, 2025: We become a 501-c3
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January 10, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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January 25, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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2024 Events:​
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September 21, 2024: Northwestern Community Services Board, Suicide prevention resource fair exhibitor, Front Royal, Virginia (MSL)
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September 28, 2024: Speaking of Love podcast (virtual)
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October 12, 2024: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Out of the Darkness Walk exhibitor, Stephen’s City, VA (MSL)
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October 27, 2024: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Out of the Darkness Walk exhibitor, Jones Beach, NY (MSL)
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October 29, 2024: Everytown - Virginia Chapter - Presentation (in-person)
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November 1, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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November 15, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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November 23, 2024: International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day - Multiple locations (in-person)
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December 4, 2024: Warren County Virginia Resource Fair (in-person)
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December 6, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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December 20, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
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December 22, 2024: We Remember: Annual MSL Network Candlelight Vigil (virtual)
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December 27, 2024: MSL Survivors Support Meeting (virtual)
Understanding
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Provide a supportive place for survivors of murder-suicide loss to share their experience, thoughts, and feelings regardless of their relationship(s) to the victims and/or perpetrators.
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Provide constructive ways to grieve, cope and heal.
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Remove or work to reduce the stigma and shame an individual might feel with this often misunderstood and complex type of suicide loss.
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Help participants leave with a tool, connection, or new perspective that helps them move toward their healing goals.
